10 Commandments of the Tongue
1) Thou shalt not gossip. Prov. 18:8 Before any evil story whispered
in the ear is passed on, it should be treated as the housewife treats
apples for a pie ... first peeled, then quartered, and cored, then
what remains liberally sugared.
(2) Thou shalt not use a multitude of empty words. Prov. 10:19.
Your tongue reveals the nature of your thinking and your character.
The divine Master Himself admonishes the children of men to "let
your admonishes be yea, yea, nay, nay, for whatsoever is more than
these cometh of evil."
(3) Thou shalt not boast. Prov. 27:2 A small man makes long, loud
boastings in order to center the spotlight of attention on himself;
the great man works quietly, Silently polishing the beacon that
it may guide the ship safely into the desired haven.
(4) Thou shalt not flatter. Prov. 26:28 Someone has said that "Flattery
is like soft soap; it is 90% lye" - and you can count on the
ratio being just about right. The words of the man or woman who
would flatter you, according to the psalmist, who had a great deal
of experience with that sort of thing, are "softer than oil,
yet withdrawn swords."
(5) Thou shalt not grumble. Phil. 2:14 The prescription for this
malady is to saturate your life with loving kindness. Let it enter
every pore and the process will be absolutely foolproof against
the gnawing frets and worries that are worse than termites, to eat
the soul out of you.
(6) Thou shalt not backbite or slander. Psalm 64:3 The tongue that
backbites or slanders is the weapon that empties churches, pours
streams of bickering humans into divorce courts, fills our jails
with wretched humanity, and lashes men and woman to Satan's kingdom.
(7) Thou shalt not mock or make fun. Job 11:3 Let us learn sympathy
and give our fellows a helping hand instead of mockery, no matter
how peculiar or odd they may be. Remember angels visit the earth
in all kinds of guises.
(8) Thou shalt not lie. Ex. 20:16 The first recorded lie was told
in the garden of Eden. Since then, the practice has spread like
a plague throughout the whole earth. Everyone hates a lying tongue.
(9) Thou shalt not swear. Ex. 20:7 Profanity is the official language
of the devil's kingdom. Have no part in it for it will disqualify
you for heaven.
(10) Thou shalt not argue in anger. Hosea 7:16 Whatever the provocation
is remember that "silence is golden" and that "a
soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words stir up anger"
Prov. 15:11-- Author Unknown
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